Are you ready for your hottest, most confident queer summer yet?
Spicy Sapphic Summer: Mini-Course is about helping you step into queer dating and sex (maybe for the first time ever!) this summer feeling confident and sexy af!
Do you want to banish gay panic, and have the most hot, confident, queer summer of dating ever?
Do you struggle with taking the leap to asking a cutie out because of fear of performing in the bedroom, and want to feel confident that you know what scissoring is?
Do you want to stop feeling overwhelmed and and “holy shit that cutie is hot but there’s no way I could approach them??” and start feeling grounded in queer confidence.
Do you want to a queer dating life that feels abundant, fun, easeful, and hot - no matter if it’s your first (or 5th) time switching your dating app settings to include more than cis men?
Then you’re in the right place!
Spicy Sapphic Summer: Have your hottest queer summer yet
Grab the webinar package!
*the mini-course is not for cis men. Non-binary people, trans & cis women, and trans men are welcome.
You’re the perfect fit for Spicy Sapphic Summer if…
You’re a queer, bisexual, lesbian, sapphic, not straight, late bloomer, or questioning person
You’re new to queer dating & intimacy and want to explore dating with confidence this summer - no matter if you’re polyamorous, monogamous, looking for hook-ups, fwb, and beyond!
You have no idea where to find queer cuties to date, feel too nervous to send the first message, and never know if a cutie is into you or just being nice
You know you want more queer sexual experiences (ummm queers are hot amiright??), but feel nervous about your lack of knowledge and confidence in the bedroom
How does Spicy Sapphic Summer Work?
Spicy Sapphic Summer was originally presented as a live mini-course. You can now get all the recordings in a bundle to walk at your own pace + in any time zone!
Each session is designed to help you tackle a different aspect of queer dating this summer, and help you build confidence and queer sex skills.
SESSION ONE: LET’S GETTING STARTED
🌈 Get all the essential info on queer-friendly dating app profile, best queer dating apps, how to find the best queer events for flirting and meeting hotties!
🌈 Learn tips to go from the match —> the date beyond just telling each other you think how pretty/handsome/hot each other are!
🌈 Get all the tips on cultivating your confidence in queer summer style and expression, and how to bring that into flirting with cute queer babes IRL
SESSION TWO: QUEER DATING DYNAMICS
🌈 Get all your answers to questions like: Who pays?? If I’m a femme bottom into mascs can I initiate?? How do I know if it’s just bestie vibes?? In learning how to date beyond cishetero scripts!
🌈 Learn communication tools and confidence for navigating queer dating for the first time at your own pace, setting boundaries
🌈 Get the info of the queer dating landscape (polyamory, monogamy, hook-ups, going on cute little dates) and define YOUR needs and goals for this summer’s dating
SESSION THREE: QUEER SEX SKILLS
🌈 Demystify queer pleasure anatomy - including the transferrable skills you’ve already got, debunk myths about taste, smell, texture and beyond
🌈 Get all the info on pleasuring queer bodies!!! Where to touch and different techniques to drive them wild (sorry not sorry for the Cosmo language baha)
🌈 Wonder no longer if people actually scissor!!! Learn the 101 on all things queer sex including strap-on sex, scissoring, oral sex, hand sex, and more
SESSION FOUR: QUEERING COMMUNICATION
🌈 Learn tools and tips to feel confident af naming your boundaries and desires in the bedroom (including if what you need to communicate is: “please show me how you like it so I make you scream” aka I’m new here so show me what you like!)
🌈 Get the communication essentials for before/during/after sex so you can have an amazing time and better sex next time too ;)
Join Spicy Sapphic Summer!
Live mini-course: $125 USD ($31 per workshop)
Webinar package: $39 USD!
Previous live sessions:
May 20th (8-9pm EST): Let’s Get Started
May 27th (8-9pm EST): Queer Dating Dynamics
June 3rd (8-9pm EST): Queer Sex Skills
June 10th (8-pm EST): Queering Communication
You should attend if…
🌈 You’ll open your dating app to start swiping on queer hotties, then close it because you’re queer imposter syndrome rears its ugly head (AND REPEAT!!)
🌈 You know how to pleasure a cishet man with your eyes closed, but the idea of having queer sex makes you want to scream/cry/throw up (even though you really, really want to have more of it)
🌈 You want to be able to rock up to a hot queer summer party (you know where those are now💅), feel confident in your identity/expression/skills, and offer to buy a hottie a drink WITHOUT BATTING A LASH
I’m here to guide you on this journey!
Hi! 👋 I'm Eva Bloom!
I’m a late bloomer queer myself! Comphet aka compulsory heterosexuality had me in the closet for a loooong time, founding my High School’s GSA and having a FFF threesome while thinking I was still straight???
The time and space for reflection over the pandemic (plus lesbian Tik Tok, of course!) finally helped me come out as a lesbian and non-binary in 2021.
From there, I’ve been inspired to channel my sex educator training (Masters of Science on the social psychology of sexuality) into helping late blooming queer, trans, non-binary, and questioning people build confidence, queer joy, and have amazing sex!
I know queer imposter syndrome first hand, and how overwhelming it can be to take the leap to explore your queerness. It’s incredibly brave to step outside what you were taught your whole life and what is the “norm” when it comes to sex and relationships.
I’ve worked with 200+ late bloomers, and I know that power of creating a life that honours ALL parts of you is life-changing.
My experience with Eva was one that I wished would never end! The safe space they created through facilitation and education became a short, but extremely sweet get away of like minded people learning to navigate their Queerness. I have learned lots about myself in the few hours spent with Eva and the group, and I am looking forward to learning more upon joining the Late Bloomers Support Club! If you're looking for a sign to demonstrate willingness through tenderness, vulnerability, self-love, and - THIS IS IT!
- Mon
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs):
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Is this program a good place for me to work through my sexual trauma?
I am not a social worker or licensed therapist, so I cannot provide tailored support around working through sexual trauma. This program can be a compliment to therapy and provide knowledge and a supportive community.
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I'm still questioning (or worry I'm not "queer enough"), is this program a good fit for me?
Yes! There is no requirement to be out, know your specific queer label, or have all the answers. This mini-course is actually especially for people who still have questions and want to build confidence!
It’s for questioning, not straight, closeted, baby queer/gay, late bloomers, lesbian, bisexual/pansexual, sapphic, queer people! Non-binary people, trans & cis women, and trans men!
Regardless of if you’re in a relationship or not, and what gender your partner is!
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What is the time commitment for Spicy Sapphic Summer?
The live Spicy Sapphic Summer is 4x1 hour weekly sessions.
May 20th (8-9pm EST): Let’s Get Started
May 27th (8-9pm EST): Queer Dating Dynamics
June 3rd (8-9pm EST): Queer Sex Skills
June 10th (8-pm EST): Queering Communication